I wanted to let everyone know that Gary is really having a difficult time and seems to have taken a turn for the worse. Please remember this family as they are struggling to get through this. Here is Gary's website for those of you who would like to leave a comment and let Gary and his family know you are thinking about him. Gary Bailey Also please keep in mind that Gary's children are very young - maybe 1 and 3 - and unfortunately will have limited memories of Gary should something tragic happen. I think it would be nice if we all could write down a fond memory you have of Gary for his girls to read later in life.